Resolved Question: Can Gay/Lesbians Please Answer This Paradox For Me?

15 January 2012, 5:05 pm

Why do some gay men feel attracted to feminine pretty boys,but not women? I know this is not the case with all gay men,I am one of those open minded straight people who knows not all homosexuals are like that,or that they lust after every guy.Not true. But some are like that,but to me it seems so contradictory. Same with lesbians,some are attracted to women are butch,male like.But they are not attracted to men.Of course not all lesbians are like,many are attracted to "normal" looking women,like say Angelina Jolie or Charlize Theron. But why is this sometimes the case,seems like a paradox,and to some straight people it makes no sense.I am open minded,I know gays are like us,they do not lust after any dude,are not all promiscuous, and not all "get AIDS" and die as some ignorant straight people think. But this aspect that I asked,makes little sense to me.For the most part,gay men are attracted to men,and lesbians are attracted to women. A related question is why are some men attracted to transgendered men? Seems strange,but some straight men like shemales..Gays do not find transgendered men attractive from what I can understand. I am straight,and am attracted to women.Not shemales,because they are really men.And if I were gay,I would be attracted to men.So I don't get who would find shemales attractive. Sorry everyone for the long questions,but if you can answer anyone of my questions,that would be great.Please no ignorant answers,or anything offensive. Good luck!... Read More »